Passing Up

I passed up a chance last weekend and i learned something about myself. one of my clinically-heartbroken buddies was on self-destruct mode and wanted a co-conspirator. I thought i could be a willing collaborator..victim and user in one. but i turned chronic-confessor and was again "too honest for my own good." this made her feel guilty about using me and losing the friendship in the end..suffice it to say, we didnt go through with it. this damn "personal value system" always has consequences...what does it say about me..-3/5/07