My Vows for Toni

(my wedding vows..to remind me for the rest of my life) My Dearest Toni, I stand before you now, ready to take the next big step towards having a life together. You came to me unexpectedly, bringing joy and sunshine just when I needed it most. You brought me laughter, you brought me peace. Most of all, you gave me strength. These are things you gave freely, willingly and maybe even without realizing it. Every day, for over a year now, you make me feel your love and sometimes it leaves me speechless and in awe. Never have I felt so cherished and loved as when I am with you. I still marvel at how easily and how quickly you seem to fit into my world…that finally, everything is perfect. I now know that the Universe indeed conspires to make things happen if it’s meant to be. Today, I give you my heart and everything that I am, as I take you as my spouse; I promise to love you and care for you, to put you and our family first before any thing or any one. I will be your shelter and your sanctuary, as you are mine; I promise to always be here for you, never leaving your side whether in good times or in bad. I will wholeheartedly share with you every thought, every smile or tear, and give you all the honesty your trust deserves. Most of all, I promise to be worthy of your love and all the patience, understanding and respect this life-long bond requires of us. I hold your hand now, clasped within my own, never more certain or prepared to face the future with you as I become your partner for life. I love you very much.